Just By Luck

Now after 5 years of marriage and spending all most every single day with each other, yes I hereby confess that I am Lucky to have a life partner like him.

Also not to forget that when my family was setting up my wedding alliance with him, honestly I wasn’t ready at all. Like every second girl I first wanted to set up my own business, enjoy my spinster life a little more. Before meeting him I had already rejected 8 proposals, some for genuine reasons, some for non sense reasons.

But this time there was a problem as he was too perfect in everything. Intentionally i wanted to but i wasn’t finding any reason to reject him. Hence I was too confused. But thanks to my elderly female colleagues suggestions, i thought of giving it a chance and talk to him over a call. I spoke to him for just 5 minutes and he said yes to very condition which i put forward to him.

So now I had to take my decision and I said “yes”, with hundred questions banging on the walls of my head. But as they sometimes you need to go by guts. That’s what i did. Now the last challenge was he was settled in Chennai, India. That place has different culture, language, food etc. , and i was skeptical about getting out of my comfort zone. But somehow he was able to convince me to move to Chennai. Also my friend had suggested that sometimes in marriage it is important to spend time together in initial days away from everyone you know. This gives you and your partner time and opportunity to understand each other, solve problems together with any third persons interference.

So after I landed in chennai for the first time in my life, I faced the first flood of my life. Yes we started our life together from scratch, without anyone’s help, just with our understanding, support and trust for each other. Since that day he has done everything to provide my safe, secure, confident and comfortable life. He has kept every promise he made. He is fulfilling every wish of my life. He is my biggest critic and strongest supporter. His care for me, can be my weakness, but his love and trust is my biggest strength. Hence because of my guts and by good luck I am married to man of dreams of many girls out there.

So thank you love.

Words are less to describe him, hence may be i need to write 2-3 blogs about this huhhhh